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Are bedtime Stories Alive and Well?

8/3/2016

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I was lucky enough to attend a Lis’n Tell workshop last night.  Lis’n Tell is a story telling approach designed by British Speech Pathologist, Louise Coigley.  Louise developed this interactive storytelling technique to support children and adults with communication and learning difficulties.  She spun wonderful yarns and after the initial nervousness of having to join in we were all in fits of laughter, at her, ourselves and each other.

Louise shared some research findings with us to emphasise the importance of storytelling to children.  Stories, she reminded us, serve to give children a sense of time, a sense of the rhythm of life, and a view into other people’s worlds and perspectives. 

And it got me thinking, I keep reading new research findings and anecdotal observations of teachers and parents that children entering school in the last 5 years in Christchurch have seemingly new struggles with behavioural expectations for school.  I wondered, have they simply not heard enough stories?  Did we stop reading bedtime stories after the earthquakes?  Did bedtime become a time so fraught with anxiety and exhaustion (from both the children and the parents) that we started to do it less often, or maybe we stopped doing it altogether?

Where ever we live in the world, storytelling remains the most heartfelt and important form of communication. All of us tell stories. The story of your day, the story of your life, workplace gossip, the horrors on the news. Our brains are hard-wired to think and express in terms of a beginning, middle and end. It's how we understand the world.

Sharing stories is the oldest form of teaching. It held early human communities together, giving children the answers to the biggest questions of the way the world works. Stories define us, shape us, control us, and make us. Not every human culture in the world is literate, but every single culture uses stories to connect and share.

What are the stories that our children are hearing?  Since the earthquake on Valentine’s Day in Christchurch they’ve been hearing some familiar ones, as I’m sure you have too.  They’re also bombarded with stories in the media. These stories are most often unpleasant and they rarely have happy endings.  Perhaps the anecdote to this is a bedtime story, the few minutes of connection that calms the worried mind in preparation for rest.

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Louise will be offering more trainings and story telling in Wellington during March.
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Louise Coigley link
17/5/2016 10:26:38 pm

Hi Sarina, thanks so much for coming to Lis'n Tell, and for writing this inspiring blog....do let me know how it goes please!

All the best to you, Louise

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Felicity
26/7/2016 10:00:30 pm

Hi Sarina, Love-in-Action-Lady,
This is simply wonderful and wonderfully simple - an expression of love in the shape of stories. I am attending Louise's Lis'n Tell in a few weeks time and want to connect with children, including refugee children where there may be language barriers too. I would love to be able to keep in touch with you to share experience and the stories of our 'work'. Blessings to you, be well and go well, Felicity

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    We all worry and feel anxiety at times in our lives.  Anxiety can impact on children and their families in many ways. The Worry Bug Project seeks to support parents and teachers to recognise and address mild to moderate anxiety.
    ​Sarina Dickson is a parent, author and educator, Julie Burgess-Manning is a parent, author and registered psychologist.

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